"Doula to Accompany and Comfort the Dying" and
"Successful Public Speaking"
February 4, 2004


Two beneficial presentations were delivered at this membership meeting that was hosted by William Wang at the New York Downtown Hospital.

DOULA PROGRAM
Harriet Feiner, CSW, is a Director at The Shira Ruskay Center. Three years ago she began DOULA, a program designed to provide support and stabilization to individuals who have little or no family support during their time of dying. The center now has forty trained volunteers who've served in five different hospitals, two nursing homes as well as in patients' homes. Harriet emphasized that the goal of the program is to serve patients near the end of life. Volunteers are trained through eight, one and a half hour sessions and meet with trainers approximately every eight weeks thereafter. "The quality of the relationships that the DOULAs build with patients is extraordinary." Harriet told a story of a man who was suffering from AIDS as well as ALS and the DOULA discovered that the two women who were caring for him were his sisters who had previously lost their parents to AIDS. She recommended that if any of us were interested in bringing DOULA volunteers into our settings, it was crucial to have a point person to champion the program.

There is a wonderful article about the DOULA program beginning on page one of the New York Times from Sunday, January 25, 2004. DOULA is the Greek work for servant.

PUBLIC SPEAKING & PRESENTATION SKILLS
Eugene Ritchie had sat in on the presentation by Harriet Feiner (see above) and made a startling statement: "The business that you (Directors of Volunteers) are in is really about love."

Eugene's presentation covered the following areas:
  • Fear Factor; we practiced a quick tension releasing exercise.
  • Presentation Types and Structure; we discussed the importance of knowing our audience, zeroing in on the purpose of the presentation, preparing openings and closings, refining our major points, and giving supporting ideas and evidence.
  • Creativity, Employing Good and Effective Visuals.
  • Using Humor.
  • Pacing, Dress.
  • Motivating Others to Action.
One of the most useful aspects of Eugene's presentation was enhancing our current methods. After eliciting examples/ideas from the DVS's in the room, he improved them by using the methods he taught earlier in the presentation. The shared ideas became more effective, motivating, and easier to absorb the information.



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Building Volunteer Communities
How to Make the Generation Gap Work for You
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New York City

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New York, NY 10118-2300
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